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Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Fun at a 1850's Wedding!!

If you know me or just by looking at my blog you can tell,I love any old stuff from the past. I live near Land Between the Lakes in KY. I love "The Homeplace". It is really one of the best living history farms I have seen. Live animals and costume workers all the time. I just really love it. I missed the event last year,but I got to go yesterday to it this year. A reenactment of a 1850's wedding!! I loved it. Call me a nerd or dork or whatever,but I love history things like this. I love seeing, hearing or reading about time periods in the past. Here is a few pictures from this weekend. I didn't take any really of the farm because I have a bunch I took already on another trip. If you want to see those Posts click below

On to this weekend!!

The Single Pen house where the wedding took place
and the ducks below were invited to the wedding I guess?

 The Groom showed up. Along with the preacher and Bride's Brother
 I love the wedding veil and gloves.
Felt like you were back in time sitting with all the people!
 Putting a shoe on the brides forehead and then passing it to the new husband. Reminded the bride that authority over her has passed to her new husband. In turn, the groom promised to treat his wife well.
The mother brushed the bride with a small sheaf of 
wheat to symbolically ensure fertility in the marriage

 Married! It was so cute.

They served Cake and Cider to all the guest
They did the cake cutting
 First dance. The waltz.
Virginia Reel Dance
 “Run for the Broom” game played by single men
 “Toss the Cat in the Quilt,” game for the single ladies 
 “Catch the Bride’s Sock,” game. Removes brides sock and throws for single ladies to catch it


"The Virginia Reel Dance"
(You can turn off background music at bottom of page to watch video)
A short clip of the first dance


I hope you enjoyed this post!! I had a great time!!

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Valentine's once again...

Valentine's is upon us once again!! The thing is it really hasn't bothered me that I am single again this year!! So many people are jumping in and out of relationships and person after person. I don't think their is nothing wrong with dating as long as it is a clean good time together. Their is no harm in going out with somebody to get to know a person. Weather it be going to a church service together,the movies or grabbing a bite to eat somewhere,bowling. Their are ton of good clean fun you can have and I don't see nothing wrong with that. I am a person who usually knows the first time I meet a guy that no he isn't the one and pretty much end it after the first date. God shows me who is right and who is wrong for me. 

Now I don't approve of going and sleeping with someone before your married and having one night stands or clubbing or drinking. To me that is worldly dating and is not good for a person. Their are so many people today having one night stands and that is so sad. God intended sex to be for Marriage!! Going after person after person and jumping in and out of relationships and having sex and one night stands isn't good and will not get you anywhere.

I dream sometimes of who God has for me or maybe he doesn't have anyone for me. Maybe their is another plan he has. If he does have someone for me. I have standards in what a guy should be. 

He must love God first and put him first in everything. A Godly caring man who is also dedicated to his family. One who does not drink. One who is pure and can come to marriage that way. One who is kind and humble. One who loves others and is slow to anger. One who is respectful. One who helps others. One who has a good sense of humor and then also knows when to be serious. One who holds my hand through the trials of our life. Someone simple and does not need fancy things. I could go on,but I think you get the picture!

Don't settle young people. 
Wait for the one God has chosen for you. Stay pure and don't follow the wrong crowd. Wait for the Lord to send you the person,the godly person he has for you!

Saturday, October 6, 2012

Staying Content...


I know we are to be content in life,but to be honest I sometimes have trouble with being content. I had so many things in mind that I was supposed to be at in life now. Seeing everyone I have known having babies and getting married always tugs at me a little. Don't get me wrong I am still very happy for everyone that does these,but somewhere deep down a longing always hits me on how my dream is not coming true. I have this dream of being a wife and mother. I didn't realize til lately how deeply I wanted it. I always tuck it away somewhere inside and say it does not bother me,but I am finding out it does bother me. It also hurts to hear in the world that people can have kid after kid but yet they don't want them,abort them,neglect them or hurt them. Why are they able to have children but some that would give wonderful homes and want kids can't have them? That question makes me wonder a lot. Just thought I would pour my heart out a little with some honest feelings. Maybe some single person out there can understand what I am trying to say or maybe they feel the same way. I am though trying to work on being content and God has a plan and I will follow what he wants me to do.

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Why being Gay is Wrong...


Chick fil a has recently came out and said they don't agree with Homosexuality. They are one of the first big major business that I know of that have came out and said this openly. I stand behind them for their view and what God's say in his word. My thoughts have gone from in life.Am I wrong? What's it too me how one lives? I'm not the judge. I have had so many different thoughts and it always come back to the same one,yes it is wrong. 




First off in Genesis when God created the world he created one man and one woman. We see this in the following verses.

Genesis 2:21-25
21 And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
22 And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

These verses alone should show how God indented for a man,woman union. If he would have wanted two men or two women he would have said so,but no he said, a man shall leave his mother and father(man and woman again) and cleave to his wife(woman) and they were both naked and not ashamed. He told them to go fourth and multiply. Let me say as well, can 2 men or 2 woman produce children? No,only male and female together is how human life comes about and produces.

Next verses found in Leviticus

Leviticus 18:22 Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination

20:13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

I don't even have to say anything on these verses because they speak for themselves. It's perfectly clear. Now people with these verses will say and use the defense well "It also says do not eat shellfish or some other rule in the section" If we find it wrong with the other then we should not eat shellfish either they say. My answer is we don't go by the Old Testament. We by the New Covenant. In the Old Testament their were examples of same sex relationships,but it was not brought on by God,he didn't support it. It was a man made thing they created on their own. When Jesus died on the cross he died for all these sins and took the price for them. He shed blood so that when we do sin we are forgiven and we are to turn from that sin. People will say it's not in the New Testament. It is and in the New Covenant it is still one of the sins that are wrong.

Jude 1:7 Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire

These were two men from the old testament that had engage in unnatural acts with each other and it's brought up in the new because it is still wrong. It's saying your in danger of Hell if you don't turn from your sin.

Also these Verses

Matthew 19:4-6

4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,

5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder

Here it is said again still saying One man and One woman,it still has not changed in the New Testament. Do you see anywhere in the bible where it was ok for the same sex to be together,no you don't.

Then in Romans we see

Romans 1:24-27

24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 

Homosexuality would fall under verse 24 because people are following their hearts when they do this,not God.

25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.

26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet

These verses point out again how it is wrong. It's saying it is unnatural to have relations other then man and woman.


So I hope all this makes sense for I am no bible expert,but it does clearly state it. Throughout all time it has been male and female and same sex has never been accepted because through out all the years it came from somewhere that is wrong and marriage is for man and woman. If it was right I believe it would have been told in the bible and carried through the generations to today. It isn't! Throughout everything it's always been man and woman because that is what the bible says and God says. I'm not a bigot or filled with hate toward others who choose this lifestyle. I love anybody and everybody and will treat everyone the same. I don't bully or treat anyone different,but I don't agree with the sin. One can turn away from that sin and be forgiven,but you must walk away from the sin your in just like any other sin. You can't keep living in that sin. Being gay is a sin. I hope I have made some sense in this post for as I said before I'm not bible expert but have my convictions as to what I believe it is saying. I respect others opinions so wish others would respect mine as well.


Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Where has Purity gone?


It saddens my heart to see boys and girls running around with every available person to date. They break up with one person and on to the next. I just can't believe all the stuff going on today in the world. Their are young people becoming parents at ages under 16. What happened to purity and waiting til marriage. Running from one relationship to the other isn't getting you nowhere. Your giving away you heart and self one piece at a time. I'm not trying to preach or anything. It's like people have no respect anymore for a solid based Godly relationship. People date one guy and cry and then move on and date another and cry and the cycle continues. Why is it that some people just have to be in a relationship to be happy? Where are the good godly couples at anymore? Where are the godly parents at anymore to tell their children to stop and see what they are doing in their young lives? The world is getting worse each day. I can't even imagine what the world will be like in the future. What has happened to our world? Why are people just giving themselves away so easy and acting with no respect towards anything? I believe we need to save ourselves for Marriage. I don't believe in sex before then. Young people or any age stop giving yourself away. Stop and wait for the one God has sent for you. Don't just keep falling for every person that comes along.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

I can dream a Little Dream..can' I?

 I've always been very careful with guys and kept my guard up,because you see I know and have realized it more lately that I want the very best,the one God has in store for me. I am not going settle for anyone. I want to settle for God's one for me. Ok back to my story at what this blog post is about. Pinterest, I love that website and now thanks to it I have a board of wedding ideas. I know it's sad because I'm not dating anyone and no hints of any in the near future..lol..but I actually have a theme I would want for a wedding now. I never had one before and finally figured out what I wanted or should I say would want from Pinterest. I want a Vintage themed wedding,like "The Notebook" movie era. It's hard to explain because I see it in my head but can't actually describe it..lol. I want a old time feel. Here are a few pictures below I found on Pinterest of ideas.

This I like for Bridesmaid dresses. I love how it just flows down. 
Something about this dress I have fallen in love with for a Vintage style. I use to think I wanted the big pretty flowing wedding gown,but something about this I just love. The sleeves are just beautiful.
In this one I am looking at the man's clothing. It reminds me of Noah in the Notebook movie. I think it's the cutest style for the time period wedding I like. Plus I love the umbrella and the grooms hat,it is something different.
I love this kind of color on pictures,it would be the old time look I want and I love the old car too!
I like the old truck in this one..so cute
 I love the beads on the flower stems.

Ok hope you enjoyed my little day dreaming..lol. Of course if I ever do get married it could change in a heartbeat..but it's fun to dream:)

Friday, August 5, 2011

Just wait on the Lord

When I was a little girl I remember one time having a little cabbage patch baby doll and one day I carried it around like a real baby and took it everywhere with me and I even packed a bag for it with it's fake baby bottle that came with it. I even remember going up to the cashier in a store and handing her a baby bag and asking her the price. I was looking at all the baby stuff like my baby doll was a real live baby. So funny. I dreamed though and look forward to the day when I got older and married and my own babies would really come. I am 27 now and it looks as though it's never going to happen. Yes I would love to get married and have babies and raised them in a good godly home,but the Lord has not made it his will to send me a man to marry yet. I honestly think at this time in my life the Lord is preparing me to be a single woman and I don't think as of right now that dream I had a little girl is going to come true,sometimes you can just feel inside what is to be. You know though I think I am at perfect peace with being single the rest of my life. Think of all the things I can do for the Lord as a single woman that I would not be able to do if I were married. Plus I may not be married but I get to be married to God. How amazing is that? So friend if you too are waiting on the Lord's will about marriage and babies. Wait on the Lord and find his will for your life and you will never go wrong. Just wait on the Lord.

Friday, April 29, 2011

The Royal Wedding

Yes I was up bright and early and watched the Royal Wedding. I love too watch different cultures and different weddings. I love the Royal ones. Yes I got these pics below from my own camera off the t.v. I couldn't be there so it was the next best thing..lol:) I loved her dress, the extact kind of lace and style I want if I ever get lucky to get my Prince:) Who else got up early?










Tuesday, February 1, 2011

The 6 Things a Gentleman must have for me...


All little girls have the same dream,well most little girls of that day when "Mr.Prince Charming will come capture her heart and ride away on the white horse and magically take you off into the sunset and you will live happy ever after right? Ok let's face it now that I am older no man is going to ride in on a white horse like in those classic Disney movies,but you should not settle with just anyone. You need to settle with the one God has chosen for your life. Your one true "Prince Charming" comes from God and his plan not your own plan. Below I have outlined some of the important things a gentleman must have for him to be in my life if God wills it,if not truly I am happy being single and have no problem not marrying if the Lord does not have it in his plan. So here are some examples of what I look for in a Man.

Godly: He has to be a born again saved by the blood Christian who puts God first in his life and base all his decisions and answers from God in life. Someone in Church and who will be a spiritual leader to our home and family and leads a Godly life! Someone with Convictions. Someone who does not Party,Drink,Do drugs or any other ungodly thing. He must be into good Godly clean stuff.

Purity: He must be one that has saved himself for marriage and respects it as a conviction that he lives by. I don't want a man who's been around with all the women. I want one true man that has honored his purity and saved it for his future wife.

Family: He must take family serious and respect his family and my family and treat both right and know the value of family. He must be willing to let me stay home to be keeper at home and guide and raise our Children and home as talked about in the book of Titus. He must be a good father to our Children. Not violent or quick to anger person.

Trust: Very important. I want a man who is honest and trustworthy and never lies to me or anyone. An upright and honest man. Someone who is always faithful in his words and actions and someone I can trust my heart with and be able to talk and communicate with him about anything and we solve it together with God and prayer

Respect: Someone who will treat me right and take care of me like a Godly man should. Not an angry person but a person who will listen and talk and hear my opinions and respect me as a woman.

Last One but at the Top and most important: There must be three in the Marriage yes three
God
Husband
Wife

So that is some things I want in a Husband. Even if God never sees fit to give me one I honestly am completely fine with that and if he sends me one I will be happy and blessed,but it's not my decision it is God's Decision.