Valentine's once again...

Valentine's is upon us once again!! The thing is it really hasn't bothered me that I am single again this year!! So many people are jumping in and out of relationships and person after person. I don't think their is nothing wrong with dating as long as it is a clean good time together. Their is no harm in going out with somebody to get to know a person. Weather it be going to a church service together,the movies or grabbing a bite to eat somewhere,bowling. Their are ton of good clean fun you can have and I don't see nothing wrong with that. I am a person who usually knows the first time I meet a guy that no he isn't the one and pretty much end it after the first date. God shows me who is right and who is wrong for me. 

Now I don't approve of going and sleeping with someone before your married and having one night stands or clubbing or drinking. To me that is worldly dating and is not good for a person. Their are so many people today having one night stands and that is so sad. God intended sex to be for Marriage!! Going after person after person and jumping in and out of relationships and having sex and one night stands isn't good and will not get you anywhere.

I dream sometimes of who God has for me or maybe he doesn't have anyone for me. Maybe their is another plan he has. If he does have someone for me. I have standards in what a guy should be. 

He must love God first and put him first in everything. A Godly caring man who is also dedicated to his family. One who does not drink. One who is pure and can come to marriage that way. One who is kind and humble. One who loves others and is slow to anger. One who is respectful. One who helps others. One who has a good sense of humor and then also knows when to be serious. One who holds my hand through the trials of our life. Someone simple and does not need fancy things. I could go on,but I think you get the picture!

Don't settle young people. 

Wait for the one God has chosen for you. Stay pure and don't follow the wrong crowd. Wait for the Lord to send you the person,the godly person he has for you!

Staying Content...

I know we are to be content in life,but to be honest I sometimes have trouble with being content. I had so many things in mind that I was supposed to be at in life now. Seeing everyone I have known having babies and getting married always tugs at me a little. Don't get me wrong I am still very happy for everyone that does these,but somewhere deep down a longing always hits me on how my dream is not coming true. I have this dream of being a wife and mother. I didn't realize til lately how deeply I wanted it. I always tuck it away somewhere inside and say it does not bother me,but I am finding out it does bother me. It also hurts to hear in the world that people can have kid after kid but yet they don't want them,abort them,neglect them or hurt them. Why are they able to have children but some that would give wonderful homes and want kids can't have them? That question makes me wonder a lot. Just thought I would pour my heart out a little with some honest feelings. Maybe some single person out there can understand what I am trying to say or maybe they feel the same way. I am though trying to work on being content and God has a plan and I will follow what he wants me to do.

Where has Purity gone?

It saddens my heart to see boys and girls running around with every available person to date. They break up with one person and on to the next. I just can't believe all the stuff going on today in the world. Their are young people becoming parents at ages under 16. What happened to purity and waiting til marriage. Running from one relationship to the other isn't getting you nowhere. Your giving away you heart and self one piece at a time. I'm not trying to preach or anything. It's like people have no respect anymore for a solid based Godly relationship. People date one guy and cry and then move on and date another and cry and the cycle continues. Why is it that some people just have to be in a relationship to be happy? Where are the good godly couples at anymore? Where are the godly parents at anymore to tell their children to stop and see what they are doing in their young lives? The world is getting worse each day. I can't even imagine what the world will be like in the future. What has happened to our world? Why are people just giving themselves away so easy and acting with no respect towards anything? I believe we need to save ourselves for Marriage. I don't believe in sex before then. Young people or any age stop giving yourself away. Stop and wait for the one God has sent for you. Don't just keep falling for every person that comes along.

The 6 Things a Gentleman must have for me...

All little girls have the same dream,well most little girls of that day when "Mr.Prince Charming will come capture her heart and ride away on the white horse and magically take you off into the sunset and you will live happy ever after right? Ok let's face it now that I am older no man is going to ride in on a white horse like in those classic Disney movies,but you should not settle with just anyone. You need to settle with the one God has chosen for your life. Your one true "Prince Charming" comes from God and his plan not your own plan. Below I have outlined some of the important things a gentleman must have for him to be in my life if God wills it,if not truly I am happy being single and have no problem not marrying if the Lord does not have it in his plan. So here are some examples of what I look for in a Man.

Godly: He has to be a born again saved by the blood Christian who puts God first in his life and base all his decisions and answers from God in life. Someone in Church and who will be a spiritual leader to our home and family and leads a Godly life! Someone with Convictions. Someone who does not Party,Drink,Do drugs or any other ungodly thing. He must be into good Godly clean stuff.

Purity: He must be one that has saved himself for marriage and respects it as a conviction that he lives by. I don't want a man who's been around with all the women. I want one true man that has honored his purity and saved it for his future wife.

Family: He must take family serious and respect his family and my family and treat both right and know the value of family. He must be willing to let me stay home to be keeper at home and guide and raise our Children and home as talked about in the book of Titus. He must be a good father to our Children. Not violent or quick to anger person.

Trust: Very important. I want a man who is honest and trustworthy and never lies to me or anyone. An upright and honest man. Someone who is always faithful in his words and actions and someone I can trust my heart with and be able to talk and communicate with him about anything and we solve it together with God and prayer

Respect: Someone who will treat me right and take care of me like a Godly man should. Not an angry person but a person who will listen and talk and hear my opinions and respect me as a woman.

Last One but at the Top and most important: There must be three in the Marriage yes three

God

Husband

Wife

So that is some things I want in a Husband. Even if God never sees fit to give me one I honestly am completely fine with that and if he sends me one I will be happy and blessed,but it's not my decision it is God's Decision.